Everyday Rituals – Meaningful Conversations
[what rituals do YOU use to mark everyday moments of significance?]
I have loved the idea of everyday ritual forever… I even bought a book of that title only to find that it was full of dense nonsense about philosophical meanderings…
I wanted a sort of ‘Book of Days’ that describes suitable ritual and ceremony for everyday occurrences…
For example… and don’t get me wrong… the following topic does not represent a focus for me but just happened to be the first and most graphic example… [methinks he doth...]
When I have my daily evacuation… what my cheeky friend Carl C once called the ‘poop de jour’… I am learning to attach suitable inner, psychological energy to this physical event. I raise my hands above my head at that moment of feeling the inevitability of evacuation… and thanking and releasing all the energies that don’t serve me anymore… releasing them back into the vast repository ‘out there’ for others to use… [Paradoxically massively freeing up our own energies who don’t have to ‘babysit’ anymore]
This is the imagery going through my mind as I grasp the ethers above in my hands and bring them down through my physical body and out into the grateful ethers of the nether regions below…
Never forgetting that poop is entitled to be considered sacred if we apply even the most limited understanding of the ‘circle of life’ we all are part of…
I would like to discover, invent, re-invent a whole series of little imaginative and physical actions and rituals and tiny ceremonies to meaningfully accompany daily, weekly, yearly, etc., activities of a basic and primal nature to our deeper lives.
I want a meaningful, physically expressed ritual before eating, before sleeping, before making love, before instructing children, before serving elders…. I want a ritual of greeting and saying goodbye… likely several for each…
Hang on… don’t we have all this already?
Yeah, but there’s a little tiny difference between doing something on autopilot and doing it in full consciousness of the meaning, and with lively expectations as to the likely consequences and depth of meaning of the outcome, without specifying any of the details, of course…
I want a small ceremony to accompany a meal, a bath, a birthday and a departure… a nightmare and the hickups… A small ceremony to celebrate a first or final meeting, an anniversary, a new beginning, any auspicious event…
I want a ritual before and after meditation, before and after sleep, and in the presence of the guru, and any other self-realized exemplars of transcendental living.
I have looked around… the rituals out there are a bit weird sometimes and too often luridly influenced by the lowest-common denominator beliefs and imagery of the religion involved… I don’t want to have to imagine some forest god from the nordic region as I prepare my dinner…
These have to be easy, resonant images and follow-through actions that transparently model and analogize and symbolize the movements of energy involved in the action.
Of course, the premise here is that everything we do in the physical is at some level metaphorical and symbolically expressive of the inner movements of energy involved in whatever we are doing at the time.
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Illustration: A gorgeously evocative image of ritual… original here.